In elementary school, or in junior high school, you probably learned about the grammatical impact of the word “but” in a sentence. The word “but” is a conjunction, joining two phrases. It is a powerful word to use because “but” essentially negates the idea in the first phrase and implies that something else should be considered.
Here’s a quick list of what “but” can do:
- suggests there’s a chance for a different outcome
- implies there’s something which should not be forgotten
- serves to redirect your attention
- implies doubt in the preceding phrase and a more confident expectation in the phrase that follows
- marks an opposition to the preceding phrase
As I was writing my book, A Seed of Hope: God’s Promises of Fertility, one of the things that Holy Spirit whispered to me to include was how to use the “Holy But.” I laughed when I heard that– the Holy But. However, I began to understand how using it could bring godly results to our ungodly circumstances. You’re probably wondering what makes the “but” holy. The use of God’s Word following the “but” is what makes it serve a holy purpose in your life.
When you find yourself saying some negative things about yourself that you know you should not have released from your mouth, use the Holy But by stating some truth from God’s Word that addresses the circumstance that you previously stated negatively.
For example, you may have said in a moment of exasperation, “I feel like I’ll never be pregnant!” Quickly follow that up by saying, “BUT, God said that none shall be barren and that includes me” (Exodus 23:26). Maybe you’re experiencing some financial challenges and you might slip and say, “I’m always broke.” When you catch yourself, say something like, “BUT, Jesus is with me and He prospers me (1 Chronicles 22:11). The key is to negate your negative statement by stating what God has said about the matter using the word “but”. You see, good grammar really can bring godly results (Proverbs 18:21)!
God’s Truth is stronger than your fact. It is powerful and never changes. God’s Truth never fails. When you believe it and speak it, it can actually change your facts of life. What’s God’s Truth? It’s His Word of love and grace toward you (John 17:17). God’s Word doesn’t change but it does change– it is eternal. It’s power can change your circumstances. It can change how you see yourself and your circumstances. It is absolute—you can count on it!
Use the Holy But to:
- Express belief about the outcome God has planned for you
- Remind yourself of God’s viewpoint of the matter
- Redirect your attention to Jesus’ love for you
- Erase doubt and affirm your confidence in God’s words
- Declare your opposition to the negative thing you’ve previously said
Use what I call the “Holy BUT” in your everyday conversations.
It is applicable in any circumstance. It is a simple exercise that will redirect your focus and strengthen your faith.
In the midst of negative circumstances, what do you do to redirect your focus to Jesus’ words, love, and viewpoint?