Yesterday, while talking with a friend about my experience with infertility, I was reminded of some of the emotions that surfaced during that struggle:
- Shock
- Devastation
- Demoralization
- Aloneness
- Jealousy
- Confusion
- Stress
- Shame
I felt inadequate as a woman because I couldn’t do the one thing that women can do that men can’t— give birth. There are additional depressing feelings that were brought on by infertility but the point I want to make to you is that I OVERCAME them. Thankfully, I had understanding friends who pointed me to God. They encouraged me to learn about the women in the Bible who experienced infertility and overcame it. That was a turning point for me!
If you’re struggling through the emotions of infertility (and I do mean through–don’t get stuck there), you know where I’m coming from–infertility sucks! Please know that you are not alone. Trust in the Word of God. Trust in His love for you.
Have confidence that God’s promises of fertility are true for YOU. Find and anchor your hope in them.
So true! Been there too.
Thanks for sharing Arlene. It’s so important to let others know they’re not alone.